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"This communicating of a man's self to his friend works two contrary effects, for it redoubleth joys, and cutteth griefs in half."
-FRANCIS BACON, Essays
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Jul 17, 2005
You are in a situation where you should make the best decision. People often say, when the baby comes, everything changes... But it doesn't always happen... Yes, you love this guy so much... but you are loving to extremes, you even got yourself pregnant just to make him stay. Your wish was granted, he made you move in with him. He took good care of you. No doubt about that. You are now wishing he would marry you. But didn't he tell you that you would merely be the mother of his child? You say he's going out with other girls telling you that you can leave anytime, without the baby. You are asking me now if you're just loving too much. I have to be frank and concise, you're acting stupid. I'm sorry but it's true. That's how I see you right now. Why can't you accept the fact that it can never be the two of you? For now? Just think through the scenario you are in. Weigh all factors affecting your relationship. You don't need to be stressed out. Just don't make your baby a reason or a hindrance to your personal growth. He has nothing to do with this..
Why don't you : Talk to your parents about this. Talk to his parents. and leave. I know a part of you wants to. I know you are trying to accept slowly the fact that he doesn't love you. But never leave without the baby. You have every right to take him with you. Just don't deny the father's rights too... Make a special arrangement. It would be a sigh of relief for you. The time and the space away from each other would help the both of you clear your minds then you can make the right decision. Like they say, you don't know what you got til it's gone... I would be praying for you!:)
Posted at 09:54 am by DearChaste
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Jul 11, 2005
Talk about being rash... you are caught between making girls love you fast and making them love you for real... You said that you are dying to have a girlfriend coz all your friends got their own... and you have set your eyes on every lovely girl you see... one question though, Is your goal of having a girlfriend just a means to satisfy your desire of having one? just to fill up that void brought about by envy?!? I know that sometimes, your friends' smirks and jokes can get to your nerves but hey, think of all the fun things you can do as a single available man...:) You just don't know that some of your friends might be wishing they were as single as you... enjoy the pleasure of being single, maybe you're not ready yet...:) The time will just come when your heart would open up to the idea of a real relationship so, don't fret, your time will come... it will come...:)
Why don't you: Go meet new friends... new girls... go on dates... and be harmless, okay?:) But don't encourage your unavailable friends to drop their girls and join you... hahaha... that would be baaaaddd...:) You'll never know that one of your new dates can be potential girlfriends!:) Good Luck!:)
Posted at 11:45 pm by DearChaste
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Jul 2, 2005
Dear Accidentally In Love,
If you had bumped into her more than a thousand times, then it's not an accident. When you said that each time you did, you bow down or try not to look into her eyes, now, that's the problem... Fate is trying to work on you. But you're not cooperating. Fate only presents you situations and scenarios. But to make everything happen, is all about your decisions, actions... your choices. Hasn't it occured to you that somehow, she might have noticed that she sees you everytime she goes to this mall? And it seems to me, correct me if I'm wrong, that you are waiting for her there, you knew exactly what time she's there... now that's a first step...:)
Why don't you: Try to stand out in the crowd... When you see her from afar, stop in your steps and wait for her to pass you by, look straight into her eyes and SMILE... then, just walk straight...:) Do this for a couple of times... If she brings friends with her, try to make your friends come with you too... then let them know, you like this girl...:) I tell you, your friends would be very playful when they see the girl coming...:) They might even push you to her... just try not to knock her down. If such will happen... your "sorry" would then lead to "what's your name?" A fresh start indeed... Good Luck!:)
Posted at 07:43 am by DearChaste
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Jun 29, 2005
Sometimes when we don’t know what to do, the world turns away… people leave you hanging… hanging down low… and you ask yourself why it ever got to be this way… why, when you needed help, no one is there… when you needed someone to talk to, only the air listens…
But don’t fret… for I’m here… I’m Chaste, everybody.J A girl who believes everyone needs someone to hold on to… I can be your shoulder to cry on… a song to cheer you up… the book you can read just to pass time… the swing on the porch to carry you through happy times… I can be your mother, your sister… your teacher… your student… I can be your friend…
Just drop me a message through dearchaste@yahoo.com. Tell me anything you want to say… your problems, your day, your life… I may not give you the best advice… but I listen… sometimes, you just need to let it all out… and if you have no one to do that with, then you have me…J And you have my word, I will keep them private… What will be posted would be my thoughts…J Your messages would remain in my inbox… and in my memory…J So feel free… I will be waiting…J
Posted at 02:30 am by DearChaste
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DEAR CHASTE 
